How to Write the Perfect Wedding Vows

How to Write the Perfect Wedding Vows

(Funny, Romantic and Easy Examples)

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Your simple, step-by-step guide to writing wedding vows that will be memorable — without stress. The most important thing to remember is your vows are about what you find connection in and being positive is always the best approach!

 

Step 1 – Give a Compliment

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Searches like “how to start wedding vows” often lead here. The best wedding vows begin with a heartfelt compliment. Tell your partner what you love most about them — whether it’s their humour, kindness, or quirks.

Example: “You make me laugh even when life feels heavy, and you’ve taught me what true love really is.”

 

Wedding vow writing tip: Be specific. “I love you because you’re kind” is nice — but “I love you because you bring me coffee in bed before I’m even awake” is memorable.

 

Step 2 – Make a Promise

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This is where “wedding vow examples for her/him” and “romantic wedding vows” keywords kick in. Make a promise that’s both sincere and achievable.

Example: “I promise to always have your back, to celebrate your wins, and to hold you when life gets hard.”

 

You can make it sweet, funny, or even a little cheeky:

“I promise to never watch the next episode without you… even if I really want to.”

 

Step 3 – Set a Timeline

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Couples searching “short wedding vows that make you cry” love this trick. Add a timeframe — forever, a lifetime, or until some funny milestone.

 

Example: “I’ll do this for all my days, or until we’re old and yelling at the TV together.”

 

Real Wedding Vow Examples

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Romantic Wedding Vows

“From the moment I met you, you’ve been my safe place. I promise to love you fiercely, stand beside you always, and hold your hand for every sunrise and sunset we’re lucky enough to share.”

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Funny Wedding Vows

“You are my person — my Netflix co-pilot, my late-night snack partner, and my greatest adventure. I promise to always laugh at your jokes,.”

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Casual / Relaxed Wedding Vows

“I love you for your kindness, your humour, and the way you make every day lighter. I promise to be your friend first, your cheerleader always, and your partner for all the little moments that matter most.”

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Simple Wedding Vows

“I love you. I promise to be here for you, always.”

 

Famous Movie-Inspired Wedding Vows

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These are highly shareable on Pinterest and TikTok — and perfect for SEO queries like “movie wedding vow quotes”.

  • When Harry Met Sally: “I love that you get cold when it’s 71 degrees out… and that you’re the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night.”

  • The Notebook: “I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day.”

  • Jerry Maguire: “You complete me.”

 

Quick Tips for Writing Wedding Vows

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  • Keep vows short — 30–60 seconds.

  • Write like you talk — be authentic, not overly formal.

  • Practice reading them out loud to check the flow.

  • Print or write them neatly on a vow card for the big day or red off your phone for a more casual vibe.

 

 

💌 We can email your Free “How to Write Wedding Vows” PDF — Includes vow templates, prompts, and space to write your own. Perfect for elopements, micro weddings, and vow renewals - just email us here and ask! 

📍 Written by the celebrants at I Do Drive Thru — Australia’s leading elopement service for couples who want beautiful, stress-free weddings without the big price tag.

Melissa Jacob